The point: We don't have kids, he's in the Army and in all reality. How am I supposed to sit here and compose myself when the person I depend on is acting like a drunk. How would we EVER start a family when he's acting like this unable to control his own actions. It scares me to think that our kids would follow his footsteps and do as he does. He says he would change once we have kids, but I want the change to start now. He's 27, thinking it's still cool to party, play beer pong and act like idiots. Sad thing is, the BBQ we went to, there was no parent actually watching their kids and I couldn't help to think "what is wrong with these people". They all just played beer pong. As for kids, we've been trying for 4 months now and nothing. I know it's not happening now, but I would like to know I can trust him, and his actions.
It scares me he gets like this often, not nightly but whenever we went up going out with friends. Maybe it's just the friends here? And when we PCS it will all change? But I just get so annoyed, and I KNEW he went over the top last night; when on the way home he insisted on drunk calling my dad.. I know my parent's are cool but still... one word... PARENTS... In my opinion I find that trashy to do, I find getting that wasted just pathetic, he's not 21 anymore. Why is he trying to act like it? He is in the Army.. He should have some morals and values. Once again I am going to suggest him see someone, because I feel it might be deeper than just "trying to fit in" or whatever it is he is doing. But if it continues, people told me to go to COC, or the Chaplain.
What would you do if your husband got wasted every time he drank with your friends? How would you handle it?